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Here are some of the top reasons for California divorces

On Behalf of | Jun 12, 2023 | Complex Divorce & Property Division |

If you’re worried that your marriage is on the rocks, then you might be concerned that you’re headed toward divorce. But for many Californians, it’s hard to tell when the line has been crossed between just a rough patch in the marriage and total failure. Ultimately, that’s a call that only you can make. However, there are some common reasons why couples in California seek divorce.

The most common causes of divorce in California

There can be a lot of factors that contribute to divorce. However, there are some similarities among many divorce seekers. This includes the following common reasons for divorces in California:

  • Infidelity: Adultery can ruin your marriage in quick order. It devastates any trust that you and your spouse have in each other, which can be difficult if not impossible to rebuild, even with marriage counseling. That’s why this is one of the most common reasons for divorce.
  • Money problems: Financial instability can lead to marital conflict. Spouses can get into ongoing arguments about how to spend marital assets, and differing financial priorities can just make things worse. When common ground can’t be found on these matters, then divorce is oftentimes on the horizon, especially when one spouse mismanages money or the spouses disagree on how to get a handle on debt.
  • Communication issues: Without effective communication, having a positive relationship with your spouse can be tough. In many instances, the quality of communication between spouses deteriorates over time, which can create conflict or a lack of connectedness. Those who feel like they can’t even talk to their spouse often turn to divorce as a way to remedy the issue.
  • Changed priorities: The things that are important to us change over time. This is especially true for couples whose children leave the home. These empty nesters might try to find new interests, and their priorities can certainly change. When these interests don’t align with their spouse’s, then discontentment can arise, and a couple might find that they no longer have anything in common. This can lead to a lack of cohesion and connectedness in the marriage, which can result in divorce.
  • Domestic violence: If you’re in a marriage where domestic violence is present, then you’re not safe. You’re not the only one facing this situation, either. Thousands of Californians find themselves trapped in these dangerous relationships. So, if you’re being physically, emotionally, or psychologically abused, then you need to find a way out of your marriage. While divorce can be a viable option, you need to make sure that you do so carefully.
  • Loss of interest: Sometimes spouses simply grow disinterested with each other over time. When this happens, divorce can seem like a good option for reinvigorating your life. Of course, if your spouse views your marriage as boring but you don’t, then you might be shocked to find out that your spouse wants a divorce.
  • Lack of intimacy: If your marriage loses mental, emotional, and physical intimacy, then you might grow to feel like you’re simply living with a roommate. Under these circumstances, you can feel trapped in a meaningless relationship. But you don’t have to be. Divorce can give you an out.

Are you ready to end your marriage?

If after reflecting on these common causes of divorce you feel like it’s time to dissolve your marriage, then you need to learn more about what you can do to make the process easier and more successful. After all, the outcome of your divorce can dictate what your post-divorce life will look like for years to come, and the amount of contention in your divorce can impact any co-parenting relationship that you might need to maintain.

Therefore, before moving forward with your divorce, you should ensure that you have a strong marriage dissolution strategy. Once you do, you’ll be able to confidently navigate the process while protecting your interests to the f